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[ View Questions for people over 18 or 21 (as applicable) ]
- Thank you for publishing your toy list. If it would be acceptable, can I request a picture of each item and you modeling it?
[ View ] I'm sure this can be done, but it is not something that will be done instantly, as I have a busy schedule at work and it will take some time to take the pictures etc.
Probably what I'll do is similar to the Lycra Choices page, and publish a few pictures at a time as and when time permits.
- What kinks have you tried?
[ View (only if over 18 or 21 (as applicable)) ] Many and varied... Probably quickest way to answer is for you to take a look at http://www.soulshaven.f2s.com/newchecklist/answers.php3?chosenUsername=zentaispot.
- Do you wear underware under your zentai?
[ View ] Depending on the context, sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. If out in public, e.g a zentai walkabout, fun run etc. then I will do for decency. However, "behind closed doors" e.g. at a zentai friendly club then normally I won't.
- What fetishes have you tried?
[ View ] Over the years, I have tried a number of fetishes, some of which have stuck, and others which are less of a turn on.
The major fetish that I have tried which has stuck has to be the Pup Play one, which has now become far more than just a fetish.
The other major fetish I have is for skintight clothing, which has also stuck and remains a major part of me.
The only fetish that I can recall trying and not enjoying terribly much was Adult Baby play, which did not appeal to me and I did not enjoy. The only part of this which has stuck is baby-grows, but even they have paw-prints or spots on them *wags*
- Previously, you were asked about toys you own, and you said you would consider a list of them. Did you?
[ View ] The list is almost there, just need to double check it, as we've bought some stuff since it was originally written. I hope to try and post it on Sunday 12th Feb.
Edit: This list has now been published at Toy List
- What other sites do you have profiles on?
[ View (only if over 18 or 21 (as applicable)) ] I can be found on: Gearfetish, AyusZentai, Fetlife, Pupzone, XTube, Slaveboys, Recon, Informed Consent... all under the same username of Zentaispot. I can also be found on The Slave Register as 759-251-231
- You've mentioned you live with parents. How does this affect your kink life, and how often do you see your owner in that case?
[ View ] I'll answer this question in reverse...
I see my owner regularly, as he lives with me as a housemate.
Kink life is affected by living with parents as it means that everything has to be carefully planned or late at night and spontaneous. The odd time when we have tried to do things spontaneously in the day, we've come close to being caught.
It also causes issues if we're going to a dungeon, or a friends as it's not necessarily easy to sneak out the toys we're taking when we're only going for a few hours and 2 bags (or a hoover and holey pipes) looks suspicious!
It also makes it awkward for people to come and visit us, because there is always someone else around.
- How much do you do that doesn't get reported on your blog?
[ View ] Domestic life doesn't get reported on the blog, as it's fairly mundane and would be quite often the same.
From a kink perspective, only the major play sessions get reported... many of the bedroom activities don't due to their spontaneous nature. Additionally, I don't want to saturate the blog posts so prefer to keep the reports to the major sessions where lots may have happened. I do occasionally tweet about some of the smaller ones, over at @zentaispot.
Odd bedroom sessions do get reported, but only when something special has happened - e.g the vac bed has come out to play.
- What other hobbies do you have?
[ View ] Aside from the pup play hobbies - frisbees etc. - I enjoy running, kayaking, upkeep of a 30 year old motor vehicle, DIY and other things which keep me active... I'm not one for sitting down and reading a book... paws make it hard to hold them!
- What do you do as a day job?
[ View ] Day Job?!? I'm a theatre technician (lights and sound), so work in the evenings and weekends mostly - and at times - all day and evenings. This is the reason why getting playtime etc. is not always easy.
- What's your favourite food?
[ View ] Chocolate Buttons *wags*
For a more serious meal, I think my favourite has to be BBQ Spare Ribs or Chicken Tikka Marsala.
- What's your favourite type of music?
[ View ] My taste in music is very varied, however, when doing sensory deprivation type play, I prefer music with a strong beat to it similar to the sort of thing that you'd hear in a gym or whilst running.
- You have previously said that you can't wank, and you get to cum as part of a play session... has anything ever caused you a wet dream? Either recently or in the past...
[ View ] There have been occasions where a wet dream has happened. Generally, this has happened where I've been teased and wound up, and put to bed in Lycra.
- How often do you get playtime?
[ View ] Not as often as I'd like... it probably averages out to be 2-3 times a week, but a lot of it depends on circumstances and schedules.
- Are there any fetishes you've tried, and haven't liked to the degree of not being willing to try them again?
[ View ] As yet, both my ex-girlfriend and my current master haven't put me outside my comfort zone whereby I've said never again to something we've tried. There's probably things out there which I'd say never again to, but as yet, that fetish and myself have never crossed path.
- Do you have a puppy tail?
[ View ] I do have a pup tail, but unfortunately, I don't seem to get on with it, which does disappoint me. However, it doesn't detract from being a puppy.
- What's your favourite toy when you're in pup mode?
[ View ] My favourite doggy toy is my blue chew ring, which I tend to play with me and tow around.
When in general pup mode, my favourite kink toy is my paws.
- In a typical week, how often do you wear Lycra (and for what purposes)
[ View ] Definitely once a week as a minimum, when I go out for a run.
Usually, I'm in Lycra 2 or 3 times a week when going to bed, for other things :)
I'd like to do it more often, but as readers of the blog have probably gathered, job and home life often get in the way.
- Do you have any planned play sessions in dungeons coming up?
[ View ] We have a dungeon visit in the planning stages, but dates as yet are not finalised.
- Would you and your owner be up for documenting a complete kinky play session on your blog one day, from beginning to end - including pictures?
[ View ] I don't think either of us would have any major issues with this... watch this space.
- What kink events are you planning on attending soon?
[ View ] I'm planning on attending the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar in February, and Heros in March. Any other kink events will be decided on a spontaneous nature depending on work commitments, free time and other things.
- How much do you think you spend on kink in an average month?
[ View ] Excluding travel costs, it's about £15 for a night out at Heros, which I do every month, regardless.. If my owner and I go to the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar, then that's probably about £40 that I spend. About £50 goes on E-bay for various Lycra things etc.
Some months, more will be spent if we make a big purchase of something, or visit a dungeon, but the figures above are about the average consistently.
- Of the people you see on a regular basis, what percentage of them know your kink side of life?
[ View ] Most of my friends (excluding work colleagues) probably know about my kink side, to one degree or another.
- What fetish events have you attended?
[ View ] I attend Heros every month, which is a Lycra Fetish Club Night, held on the first Sunday of the month.
I try and attend the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar as often as work and free time permits.
I've also attended Fetishbound, but other commitments on a Friday means this is a rare treat.
Twice I went to SMGays, in London, but decided it wasn't really a night for me.
The only other thing that I regularly attend is Erotica, at Olympia in November, where i've bene helping out for 3 years with a stand.
- What's the most sexually exciting thing you have ever done?
[ View ] I think the most exciting thing was when my owner and I had a trip to a local dungeon, for an overnight visit, and I was put to bed attached to two chain hoists, spreadeagle.
This was exciting because I did not know what was going to happen, or when I was going to be free from the situation.
In a similar way to being locked in my cage and not knowing when I would be let out or similarly when just spreadeagle on the bed, due to not being able to escape - it's the not knowing how long or what will happen next.... suppose the bottom line is the surprise element of not knowing.
- In a BDSM scene, do you have any turn-offs?
[ View ] None that I've specifically come across as of yet... probably because I have an understanding owner, who knows me and therefor won't put me in that .
I think the biggest turn-off is the scene ending too early LOL ;)
- Do you have any limits - eg. things which you will not do?
[ View (only if over 18 or 21 (as applicable)) ] I think the main ones are probably fairly 'standard' - no scat, no watersports, no permanent markings and to an extent, no blood.
- My previous question asked about owning bondage furniture... if you don't own any, what bit or bits would you like?
[ View ] If I wasn't living with parents, I would like a proper fetish dog cage, like the one I spend the time in at Erotica.
I would also like suspension hoists.
... because of current constraints, I've never really stopped to think about what I'd like to have as it becomes disappointing when you dream and know you can't have.. but definitely a proper fetish dog cage would be first on the list.
- I see from your posts about Erotica that you help out with a furniture stall. Do you own any bondage furniture?
[ View ] Unfortunately, as much as I'd like to, I don't own any big pieces of Bondage Furniture. I do have a dog cage but that's a genuine dog cage as opposed to a true fetish / bondage furniture cage.
- How easy is eating out a dog bowl?
[ View ] With the right sized doggy bowl, it's very easy. What is harder is not getting the food up your nose. Some foods are of course easier to eat than others... It also helps, if it's things like Chicken or similar, that the food is cut in to bite-size pieces to start with.
I do enjoy eating out of a dog bowl, as it enhances the experience, however, it is not always practical so when I get given the chance, I take it.
- Since you started masturbating, what's the longest time you've gone without having a wank?
[ View (only if over 18 or 21 (as applicable)) ] I have to be honest, and say that I've got no idea... It's probably about a week at most.
- You say you don't get on with chastity devices... Which have you tried, and what's the longest you've had one on?
[ View ] I've tried a CB2000, CB6000, a Bon 4 Silicone Chastity Device and a slightly cheaper steel one. Unfortunately, I have the same issues with all of them :(
The longest I've had one on is probably 48 hours at the most.
- What's your favourite way of getting off sexually (ie getting to cum)?
[ View (only if over 18 or 21 (as applicable)) ] This is actually a difficult question to answer, as I'm not overly sure of my favourite way... so I'll answer this slightly differently.
My most recent session resulted in my climax occurring whilst in sensory deprivation (listening to an album of music with pup hood on) while tied spread-eagle on the bed... with the eventual climax occurring with the last notes of the final song on the album.
- Would you post pictures on your blog of the next kink session you have, regardless of what it is or where it is?
[ View ] I would have no objections to doing this, but it might not be possible for it to be the 'next' session, as it all depends on whether the camera is to hand - and if it's something spontaneous that we get the chance for, it may not be possible to get pictures.
Normally the bigger play sessions (ie dungeon visits) do result in pictures being taken and posted, it's usually the "at home" sessions that normally get overlooked for pictures.
- Have you ever broadcast your kink sessions on a webcam anywhere?
[ View ] There have been occasions where by my owner has broadcast the kink sessions on webcam - not something I tend to have control over during them, or usually any knowledge of them happening. This is generally just to some of our select close friends.
- I have just found the pictures of you in your vac bed. Do you enjoy using it? What does it feel like?
[ View ] I thoroughly enjoy using it, it's very much an extra-special treat due to the nature of it, and home life meaning it can't be used very often. Due to the infrequent use that it has, the sensations are heightened as they don't become 'normal' with every day use.
The sensations are very strange, but very very very nice. You'd have thought that it would have been noisy (as you have a hoover running during use) but realistically, it becomes very quiet and calm and peaceful once your are in the vacuum. Additionally, the slightest touch to your body through the latex is heightened, probably a combination of the vac bed and also the sensory deprivation that the vac bed gives.
Movement is limited, you can make very small gestures but not a lot else - this puts a lot of trust in your partner as they need to be able to interpret these small gestures to ensure your safety.
- You make reference to having toys in your various blog posts, but do you have a list of the ones you have?
[ View ] As yet, I don't have a list of the toys that my owner and I have, but it's definitely worth considering doing. Leave it with me, and I'll see what I can sort out as a list.
- In a previous question, you reported that you are not allowed to masturbate. If this is the case, how do you cum?
[ View (only if over 18 or 21 (as applicable)) ] Although I am not allowed to masturbate generally, I can be given permission to... or I am able to cum as part of a play session under the control of my owner.
- In a previous question, you reported that you are not allowed to masturbate, but are not restricted by a chastity device. Is there a reason for this?
[ View ] There is, unfortunately.
I have attempted a number of devices, from the CBxk ranges to silicone ones, and have managed to escape from all of them. The problem then becomes if I adjust them so I can't escape, the blood supply gets cut off so much, that it becomes uncomfortable to wear them, even when completely flaccid.
As such, I have decided that, as much as I'd want to try them, it's just not going to be possible for me to wear them. Equally, they are too costly for us to keep buying them, just on the off-chance that one might eventually work... it's a shame you can't try before you buy (but I also understand the reasons you can't!),
- Describe your penis in detail
[ View (only if over 18 or 21 (as applicable)) ] [This question was originally asked to me as a two part question about my physique as well. I decided it would be best to answer them separately and this is part two of two. I hope, if you asked the question, you don't mind.]
To be honest, the easiest way of describing it is by saying that it's "average" (approx 6in erect), uncut and that I have no piercings.
As I like the use of ball weights at times, it appears that my balls do seem to hang down a bit lower than average, especially after having used them for some time.
... not sure what else you want to know.
- Describe your physique in detail
[ View ] [This question was originally asked to me as a two part question. I decided it would be best to answer them separately, and therefor this is part one of two. I hope, if you asked the question, you don't mind.]
Hmm, I'm not quite sure what to answer for this one...
Physically, I am told that I am quite muscular, although I do not go to the gym. I am about 1.75m tall, and when I'm in pup mode, I stand about the same height as a dalmatian (at least, according to Wikipedia). I weigh about 75kg as well. I don't really know what else to add to this... it's something that a picture would answer. For pictures at the moment, browse the Lycra Choices Page but one that springs to mind as showing my physique is the Red Leotard page.
- Does your owner place any restrictions on you (for example, whether you are allowed to jerk off, or play with other masters)?
[ View (only if over 18 or 21 (as applicable)) ] As is fitting to being owned, my owner does place certain restrictions on me. Any play with other masters would have to be approved by him for example. I am also restricted in whether I am allowed to masturbate, but this is not restricted by a chastity device - I have to have the will power to behave (which, to a degree, shows more respect for his ownership).
- Have you ever done anything kinky in public?
[ View ] I have, on a couple of occasions, played out and about... one of the first times was when my owner and I were out and about and decided to do some pictures at a stream we found by accident. You can view pictures of this on flickr.
Another time we were out and about resulted in me being tied up to a tree wearing nothing and teased and tormented.
Generally, however, we are quite reserved in public stuff, even if we're at Fetish clubs - as these actually give me a chance to be a pup rather than being bound up etc.
- How do you fir being a pup in to your day to day life?
[ View ] From a day to day aspect, the most obvious ways of fitting pup play in to life are: I wear a dog tag with my pup name on it 24/7 as per a real dog. Also, when I want something I make puppy dog eyes and when circumstances permit, dinner is served to me in a dog bowl. I also bark at my owner to get attention, and pull his t-shirt at times.
I also have a habit of begging for and eating chocolate buttons :)
- How do you fit kink in to your day to day life?
[ View ] The easiest way I fit kink in to day to day life is that I wear a chain collar which I wear 24/7 which has my dog tag on it, displaying my pup name. Other, non-kink aspects of being a pup crop up from time to time too, for example making puppy dog eyes when I want something - even if it's as simple as a drink.
I also occasionally fit some kinky clothing in to daily life, if the situation and mood suits.
- As you have an owner, do you wear anything to signify that ownership?
[ View ] Yes, I wear a jewellery chain collar around my neck, with my dog tag and my owner's phone number on it all the time.
I used to wear a padlocked chain collar all the time, but I became allergic to chrome and therefor can't wear it any more as I end up with a horrendous rash on my neck. After this came about, it was decided that buying a proper chain from a jewellers was the easiest way forward to ensure that I can always wear something to signify ownership.
- Would you take requests either for things to happen to you, and for pictures people reading your blog would like to see?
[ View ] To a degree, yes, I would be quite happy to take requests for things to happen. These would be discussed between myself and my owner, and if they were within our limits, we were both happy and felt they were appropriate, then we would try and make it happen.
We wouldn't be able to guarantee all requests were fulfilled, but we would certainly have a go at it.
- Do you do adult photographs of your sessions and post them online?
[ View ] There are photographs taken of the majority of the sessions I am involved in, varying in degrees of 'adult'ness, but they are mostly kept at home for records.
The pictures which tend to be posted online, as noted in another question, tend to be more tasteful in nature or carefully cropped to try and keep the blog as "friendly" as possible, meaning that people looking for the Zentai aspect of my life don't get confronted directly with adult images etc.
- Are there pictures of you online where you are shown hard? Your pictures on here tend to be more tasteful or implied...
[ View ] There are a few pictures of me in various play sessions posted to other online profiles, but I suspect the majority of them are duplicated on here. Mostly, these images tend to be 'tasteful' as well as they are still clothed - e.g in Lycra or in the vac bed.
- How kinky would you say you actually are?
[ View ] In truth, fairly kinky.
Unfortunately, the boundaries of normal life seem to get in the way and prevent some things happening, even though I'd want them to. Certain normalities of life unfortunately prevent spontaneous kinky activity, however, with all this in mind, I do manage to get quite a lot achieved.
- Do you consider Pup Play a kink, or just part of your life?
[ View ] Pup Play started off as a bit of a kink, but has actually now become very much a part of my life... and so much of it comes to me naturally - e.g. carrying work keys in my mouth even with my hands empty or eating my breakfast cereal out a dog bowl.
I have also managed to hone my hearing to squeaky toys, such that I can hear them from the other end of a busy supermarket and react to them without really realising that I'm doing it.
- Could you describe, as accurtely as you can, the last play session you had?
[ View ] The last play session that I had lasted over a series of nights to a degree. It started off with me being put to sleep wearing a Lycra Cycle Suit (T-Shirt and Shorts combined), with my puppy mitts and my puppy hood on, and experiencing some teasing like this.
The next night I was again put in the mitts and the puppy hood. This time I ended up being tied to the bed so I couldn't move and was subjected to more teasing and torment.
The third night, I was put in the same outfit, but was tied up in a spread-eagle fashion on the bed, and gently teased with a vibrating glove while also being tormented with the sensations of baby oil. After this, I was allowed relief but made to sleep in the mitts and hood. It now transpires that this was cut short due to the start of a developing cold though.
- What is your biggest sexual turn-on?
[ View ] Dreaming of being a puppy 24/7 is probably my biggest turn-on. That said, truthfully, it is anything that gets me away from normal life such that I can not have a care in the world and just enjoying the experience.
- When you are about to go in to a play session, regardles of whether you are out visiting a dungeon (as you blog about) or playing at home, could you describe the thoughts that go through your head and any reactions your body demonstrates?
[ View ] The main feelings are a mix of nervousness and excitement combined, as generally the first indications I get of what is about to happen is either being put in the situation or being given instructions of what to do. This could be as simple as having cuffs put on me or being asked to put them on, for example.
Another part of the feelings is reservation as I don't want to get my hopes too high in case of interruptions or things don't happen as I envisage they should do.
Body reactions are very varied depending on what situation I'm put in.
- Would you your owner ever consider playing with others if you were to book a dungeon session? If so, would it have to be someone you know, or could it be a completely random stranger.
[ View ] Yes, we would consider booking playing with others if were to book a dungeon session, and probably also if the circumstances were correct outside a dungeon session.
Mainly, it would have to be someone that we know personally as we would be more likely to trust them. That said, I have met people after having short conversations via Email and Instant Messaging but this is something that I wouldn't be out to look for specifically, it would come about from conversations and relying on gut feeling.
- Would you live the pup lifestyle 24/7 (giving up work etc.) if practical? If not, would you prefer to be able to devote more time to it?
[ View ] Something in me says that I'd still want to be able to do normal things to a degree so as much as I dream of being a pup 24/7, I think the answer is more that I'd love to be able to devote more time to it, but still maintaining a normal working life, and a normal social life.
- I have seen you blog about visiting various dungeons in the past, from big ones to small ones... can you describe what makes you think a dungeon is good or bad?
[ View ] There's a number of things that all contribute to me deciding if a dungeon is good or bad... To varying degrees, the following all contribute to the overall decision:
- Location (Is it easy to find and get to from home, does it have reasonable parking and privacy for example)
- Customer Service (Are the owners and operators friendly, how easy and quick is communication with the owners, do they take the time to explain bits to you)
- Cost (Are the costs for the hire reasonable, is it good value for money)
- Equipment Available (What equipment do they have, do you need to provide any extras yourself, do they have something that I'd want to use, but don't or can't have at home)
- Notice Period (How much warning is needed for bookings)I think the main thing to say is that I haven't actually found a bad dungeon, and that the visits my owner and I have made to all the dungeons we've visited have been good, but you can't make a full judgement until you've visited at least once.
Another thing to note is that most dungeons seem quite happy to offer you a tour of the facilities in advance, if you ask. It is worth noting that you may be required to pay for this, but I look at this as a way of the owners guaranteeing that you are not out to cause trouble.
- What other zentai suits do you own?
[ View ] I own a collection of Zentai Suits... in addition to the Spot suits (I think there's 4-5 of them, in various configurations now!) I also own:
1 x Red Suit
1 x Blue Suit
1 x Cammo Suit
1 x Spiderman Suit
1 x Skeleton Suit
1 x White Suit
3 x Black SuitsYou can see pictures of most of them on my Lycra Choices page.
- Of the numerous toys your owner and you appear to have, which is your favourite one for playing with? This excludes your pup ones...
[ View ] There's not really one 'favourite' one, as each activity requires different equipment / toys, however my top few favourites (not including pup toys) would be:
E-Stim Kits
Cuffs
Mitts, Headphones, Muzzle and Blindfold (Sensory Deprivation)
Vac Bed - mainly because it can't be used often and is therefor a treat.
Suspension Cuffs - again, mainly because it can't be used at home, so when they can be used, it's a special occasion.- Out of all the kinky activities you are involved in, excluding pup play, is the one that you prefer the best?
[ View ] Sensory Deprivation (usually when tied up with headphones and blindfold on) as it means, like Pup Play, that I can escape to my own little world, and can just relax and unwind.
